Lay Life in a Year

52 Reflections on JPII's vision for the Laity

Week 27 : “My life is being torn apart”

“I feel like my life is being torn apart.” My friend was overwhelmed by the demands of work, volunteering, family, and trying to find time to pray. 

Thankfully, Jesus actually addresses this terrible feeling. He even used these exact words. 

When He corrects Martha for her serving, He doesn’t say it’s because she is doing things, but because she is doing too many things. We translate His description of her as “anxious,” but the Greek word  means, “torn apart into many pieces.”

This busyness leaves us with the sense that this isn’t how things should be. But it isn’t a matter of just fixing our calendars, because it isn’t just the little things that pull us in every direction—it’s the big and important things.

John Paul II knows how hard this is, but he also knows how important it is. And he even says that there is another way, that we really can join our daily activities to God, and that it begins with our vocation to holiness.

And that has concrete steps that can be applied. After having prayed about this issue for months we’ve decided to share our blog post on The Cancer of Busyness where we lay out some of the concrete steps that have made a meaningful difference in our lives.  

It’s a hard battle, but as John Paul II says, finding unity of life is of the greatest importance and it can be found. 

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Week 33: From Cranberry Cookies to the Eucharistic Family

We often hear phrases like "family of God" and "a welcoming home." But what do these truly look like in our daily lives? What is their deeper meaning? My grandma ‘s cookies were an acquired taste–cranberries, pecans, and unusual spices. Initially, I didn’t like them...

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Week 32: We are the last line…of space heaters?

Last winter, I set up space heaters in the basement. I go down there every so often and it is just so cold. I was determined to heat up the space. Successfully, with 5 space heaters plugged in, I looked around, content with my work...until the breaker tripped and I...

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Week 31: Polly Pocket Cruise Ship

When my wife was a kid, there was one year when the only thing she wanted for her birthday was a Polly Pocket cruise ship toy. I recently learned this was the single greatest present any 8 year old girl could get circa 2008. Well, a few weeks later a family friend...

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